Can your friends film your wedding video?
Can Your Friends Really Film Your Wedding Video?
At FIY Wedding, our whole concept is simple: your friends film your wedding video. But naturally, many couples ask the same question—can my friends actually do that?
The answer? Yes—with a bit of planning and the right guidance, almost anyone can help create a meaningful wedding video. Here’s how.
Why Choose a DIY Wedding Video?
Let’s start with why you might want friends to film your wedding instead of hiring a professional videographer. For most people, it comes down to one thing: budget.
While a professional videographer can deliver a polished, cinematic result, the costs can be significant. That’s where DIY filming comes in—it’s a much more affordable way to capture the day.
Quick note: If one of your friends is a professional videographer, it’s usually best not to ask them to film. Why?
They may feel pressured to give you a discount, even if it’s their full-time job.
If they’re a guest, they deserve to relax and enjoy the day—not work it.
The FIY Wedding Approach: Low Pressure, Big Moments
We’re not suggesting that one person takes on the entire task of filming your wedding. The idea is to divide and conquer—assign small, manageable filming tasks to a few trusted friends or family members throughout the day.
There’s no need for perfection. Just simple, honest clips that capture the real moments—from morning prep to the first dance.
WHO Should Film?
When selecting your filming team, keep these tips in mind:
Choose reliable friends who’ll take the job seriously (without being stressed).
Assign at least two people per key moment for backup.
Look for friends who are confident with a camera—or even just with their phone.
We suggest splitting the day into big, unmissable moments like:
Getting ready
The ceremony
Speeches
Cake cutting
First dance
Everything else captured is a bonus!
WHERE Is Your Wedding Happening?
Lighting and location can make a big difference. Outdoor weddings often provide excellent natural lighting—but be mindful of unpredictable weather or nighttime ceremonies. If you’re in a remote area or outside, make sure there’s access to power for charging phones or cameras.
Pro tip: Talk to your venue in advance about filming needs—most are happy to help you plan for it.
WHEN Will Each Moment Be Filmed?
Give your chosen videographers a rough schedule. If the cake cutting is at 7:00 PM, they need to know in advance—not at 7:05!
Providing your friends with a simple timeline ensures that everyone’s ready to roll when the big moments happen.
HOW Will They Film?
Here are a few things to think about:
How many people will be filming? One person can miss a lot—share the responsibility.
What equipment will they use? FIY Wedding offers two options: we can send HD camcorders, or your guests can use their own phones and submit footage via a unique QR code.
What if someone gets sick or doesn’t show up? Always have backups. Life happens!
With a Bit of Planning, It Just Works
Yes, your friends can film your wedding—but planning is essential.
That’s why all FIY Wedding packages come with our Planning Pack, a quick 10-minute guide to help you organise your DIY videography. It includes:
A simple breakdown of who films what
Videography Tip Cards for your designated filmers
Instructions for submitting footage easily
Interested in a DIY Wedding Video?
If you're considering going the DIY route for your wedding video, we’re here to help. Reach out to a member of our team—we’ll happily answer your questions and help you choose a package that fits your day and your budget.
